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totalhedonist 48 / 40 / C
"Looking for friends with benefits."
birmingham, Alabama, United States
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totalhedonist 48/C
birmingham, Alabama
It is all about the pleasure!
Hi there! We are a 40 yr old(M)and 32yr old(F)couple. I stand 5'10" 235 lbs. with a linebacker build. She is 5'6" sex that is currently attending college. We are both sane and stable and have a home to play. We are very open minded. I have experience in the lifestyle and enjoy couples as well as singles. She is new to the lifestyle but excited about broadening her horizons. We both have a high sex drive and I prefer long, passionate,sex to quickies. But, we wouldn't turn it down:) I'm a laid back kind of guy and do not get involved in the drama. Very honest and upfront. My motto is that life is short, you might as well enjoy it. We are always up for just meeting as friends. If you are interested, hit us up! You never know until you try!

My Ideal Person We would like to find an open minded bisexual or bi-curious woman and/or couple to share naked adventures with. Friend(s) with benefits. If it turns into more, that's even better. But, not looking for that here. Also, we would like to find a swingers' party to get involved with.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 48/40 / Couple (man/woman)
  • birmingham, Alabama, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-curious
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Couples (2 men)
Marital Status: Attached
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: No
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: August 1, 1975 May 1, 1983
Travels to: charleston, South Carolina, United States
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm 5 ft 6 in
Body Type: Average Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker Prefer not to say
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker Prefer not to say
Drugs: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Education: Associate degree (2 years college) Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Male Endowment: Average/Thick N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 42 / 95 C
Eye Color: Blue Green
Glasses or Contacts: Either Either