I am 56 y.o., Caucasian male, 5'10", 175lbs., I work out and do yoga to stay to stay in shape and to be mentally sharp. 7&1/2"and average thickness, when fully aroused, but very long lasting. I enjoy being a top and being in control and directing the exact way I want to be pleased. I also on occasion like to be the bottom to experience my submissive side and put total control in my partner. I believe that by experiencing both sides, it makes me a more complete person and a better top when I am in control. I need my partner to overcome their fears to be able to communicate to me their most inner thoughts. True communication can only be achieved through complete understanding my partners most intimate inner thoughts. I have the ability to be very creative with the correct person. I am experienced in B&D but also know that my partner must not only be willing but also ready to experience total domination. I prefer to start with training my partner on how to please me and if I am satisfied, I will use my creative abilities to please my partner, in the manner that they have the passion to be pleased. I am married and must be discrete, but I am self employed and can meet during the day or on weekends with a few days notice. No rushing, my encounters last 2-3 hours. If interested leave a message that states your most inner thoughts on being pleased.

My Ideal Person I prefer in shape cross dressers or transvestites that like to dress up and be treated like the woman they really are in their inner spirit. My partner must be able to overcome their fears to communicate their most inner thoughts for my understanding, so I can treat and train them into being the woman that they truly want to be. They must be able to devote time on their appearance and wardrobe to express themselves to me the woman they truly want to be and have their desires become reality.