Well now, if you made it this far planning to gain major decision making insights into me I feel compelled to start at the beginning. My first real memory occurred on a warm, mid-western spring afternoon in my 8th year on earth. I was under an apple tree watching the clouds sail by when unexpectedly a naked lady fell into my lap..... Somehow it feels slightly delightfully sadistic to have made you read all that fiction when I could have said "been around the scene for a spell". If your masochistic side is now going to ensure you continue reading I will make this quick. Hang on as we leap forward in time a few decades *swoooooooosh* to mid-2015. For no discernible rea other than it was time the various fractured parts coalesced into the whole that I call "the Wall" and yes that is a Pink Floyd reference. Within certain limits, safety, and as time permits I give my needs, urges, and desires free rein. I am whole and really enjoying my bisexuality without doubt, remorse, or regret. If you are still reading I hope you will join me on the hedonist train I'm riding while I continue my mtf transition into a sexually satisfyingly kinky future!

My Ideal Person Initial impressions are key and first communication for me has to be more than "hey" or "wyd"....stimulate my mind, pique my curiosity, turn me on, or make me blush. The brain is, after all, the greatest sex organ. Also, if you don't have profile pic or any pics, barebones profile, no sign of thought or effort into a profile you may want to "just walk on by..."

I'm attracted to confident people but not arrogance. I was taught to believe certain bdsm activities can enhance or sensualize sex...to me its not a lifestyle where pain is inflicted simply to inflict pain. Dominance and submission was always an enhancement to sex, a sensual wave to ride up to peak during sex, not be out of it in subspace.

I'm attracted people who can show patience, empathy, and flexibility. Sex can't always be scripted. As they say, shit happens. People that can roll with the changes instead of letting a change ruin the whole night. Pre-conceived notions can easily lead to frustration and resentment if allowed to.

I'm attracted to people who understand that the space between stimulus and response is the opportunity to reach the correct or suitable response. People who can read a Charles Bukowski poem and think about it for a week. Introspective thinkers who use the matter between their ears are hot...and that isn't a matter of education.

Thanks for sticking with me on this written journey and if you are still interested let's talk, I don't bite. I'm also very spontaneous so if you see me on-line that usually means I'm looking or open to discussing.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Exhibitionism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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