Yes, I realize I'm not the norm here. Not running a game, don't need your money or your dna. Just a nice girl transplanted from the NE. Clean and athletic, no tats, no piercings, no smoking, no drugs, no psychiatric meds. My ideal first date? Get outside and enjoy the sunshine! Enjoy new things together and the rest will follow. Why am I here (since you will ask....)? I'm a physical and active person. The physical connection between myself & partner is absolutely mandatory, and aff allows people to get to the core of the matter more quickly I believe. There are very good people on aff, you just have to be willing to sift a little. What I like (since you will ask...) Sexually, I'm sensual and, if we're together, you will have my complete and total focus and devotion. I enjoy a man who really "brings it", loves kissing, loves oral, has good stamina (we can work on that together), and can go 2-4 rounds. Cuz I will!

My Ideal Person I've been accused of being too wordy. OK, here it is. What I look for:
(1) IN SHAPE. Right now. Not 10 years ago. I admit it! I have a weakness for a lean "shredded" physique. You don't have to be a pro body-builder or Ironman, just take care of yourself.
(2) THICK. Your cock, that is. And please, have it in working order.
(3) THE MAN. No I am not sharing my lingerie with you. I am the female here. Do feel free to shop for me....I'll wear anything you buy me!! 36DD. And I do like men who can throw a little game. Be sexy, use your words, be unafraid of affection.
(4) WILLING TO TAKE IT UP A FEW NOTCHES. We can all find people to have sex with. I'm looking someone real who wants regular, safe play that gets better each time!
(5) NO MARRIED OR ATTACHED MEN. No exceptions.
(6) NICE, FUNNY, SMART, ARTICULATE. I like guys that are able to express themselves.
(7) REDHEAD, BLOND, BEARDED. Not a requirement! Just in my fantasy brain.
( AGE-APPROPRIATE. My sweet spot seems to be 45-60ish. You 20-somethings, I am flattered really, but let's just say I checked off that box awhile ago.

THINGS THAT ARE AN IMMEDIATE AND TOTAL TURNOFF: (1) PUSSY-CHALLENGED. Know how to make her happy. Because if she likes you, chances are I'll like you too.. (2) DISHONEST.. Be who you say you are. DISRESPECTFUL/FLAKY. Is it so much to ask? Be able to formulate and execute a plan. My time is valuable, as is yours. (4) SPORTFUCKERS. I respect that you want to post pictures of every woman you've played with. However, I think most women, myself included, would want to feel that we're a little special. To me, sex is still an intimate activity. I'm selective about who I play with , and I want to feel that you are too.

If you've gotten through all that, and you're still with me, SAY HELLO! And SMILE!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
(Actually a true story!) I am taking a long overnight train
from Italy to Germany. The train is very full, but a large
Swede ends up sitting next to be in the cabin. We find the
only way to get comfortable is for me to lie on top of him.
It is dark and we never really see each other, but very slowly
he ends up touching, kissing me and getting me very wet.
Slowly, very slowly (the train is crowded and dark) I end
up riding him very long and slowly and it is so delicious.
We fall asleep. Then I wake up and it is my stop and I have to
rapidly pack up my stuff and run off the train.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room, Anywhere, Tent

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Blindfolds, Massage, Kissing, Tantra

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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