We have a fantastic sex life, this is nothing more than an extention of fun for us both. That being said, we're looking for regular thing. Safer that way and she's more comfortable with that. With 2 more guys for a total of 3 to choose from when one or the other isn't available with our schedules. Then once she's comfortable having been with each guy we ultimately want all 3 guys plus me with her at same time where she's already familiar and secure with all of us and she can let loose. Then even THAT may be a regular thing if all goes great. My wife's super cool, loves rock and 80's, and a complete vixen in the bedroom. She does NOT like pushy guys who try and dominate her or too rough unless we've all been worked up to that thing slowly during the night. Ultimate respect of her and I both is paramount. Once all this is established its no holds barred in the bedroom. We don't like using condoms so we wanna be assured who we are with is safe. No cumming inside her, but when you do cum we want it in and around her mouth and face, not eyes, because we will often be filming. No faces usually. She loves the anal only when she's good and numb from alcohol lol but she would like to try dp. She can cum just from anal if it's good. My wife is super clean...we both are. She shaves completely below and I do for the most part as well. She doesn't dig hairy dicked guys so shaved balls and super trimmed pubes is a must. We drink and smoke cigs when we drink so must be cool with that. And open to meeting without expectations at all. Now with women and couples we are looking for the same thing basically where she gets to experience another woman and for full swap. This too hopefully could be an ongoing thing that creates lasting friendships where we all explore limits together.