First - I'm happily married and yes, my husband is aware I'm on here; he is as well. We opened our marriage a few years ago and are very happy with this arrangement. We don't currently play together & I don't see that changing any time soon. Second - I've lost over 130lbs during the last couple of years and am still losing. Because of this, I closely resemble a melted candle when my clothes are off lol. I'm still getting used to my new and ever changing body and this can interfere with my comfort level in engaging in certain activities (such as cam & pic exchanges) and also creates some serious inhibitions when it comes to meeting people. You should know upfront that I'm smart, sarcastic, funny on occasion, impatient, have zero tolerance for small talk, am an attention wh0re from hell, and I'm about as subtle as a jackhammer. I have absolutely no interest in random hookups and prefer to get to know a person to determine if there's any mutual interest. This means I'm going to want to spend time talking with and getting to know you fairly well before deciding if I'm interested in meeting. I prefer intelligence and humor and gravitate towards dominant men. I'm a standard member, so communicating with me takes a bit of extra effort.

My Ideal Person I'm a sucker for confidence, humor, and a beautiful cock.

I'm also extremely interested in talking with those who are very athletic and into fitness and nutrition - I still have a ways to go to reach my goals and I'll take any help, encouragement, tips and motivation I can get.

I prefer those who are naturally dominant; arrogant enough to know how good you are and confident enough to be casual about it. Pair a dominant personality with a passion for fitness and nutrition, mixed with a desire to teach, train, motivate, flirt and fuck and you're basically my dream come true.

I'm primarily interested in hard core flirting via messanger in order to get to know you and determine if there's any chemistry. If there is, then we can discuss the possibility of meeting at some point, but don't expect me to make that decision quickly or easily. Again, random hookups aren't my thing.

I'm not interested in couples.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
AFI, Breaking Benjamin, Disturbed, lots of country

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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